– Expressing and Feelings
Summary
amazed *
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delighted
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lucky
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relieve
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afraid
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disappointed *
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likely
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Sad
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anxious
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determined
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motivated
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Shocked
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ashamed
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eager
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pleased
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Stunned
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astonished *
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fortunate
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prepared
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Surprised
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careful
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glad
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proud
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Sorry
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certain
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happy
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ready
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Upset
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content
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hesitant
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reluctant
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willing
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STATEMENT + MODIFYING CLAUSE
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BE + ADJECTIVE + INFINITIVE
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After adjectives expressing emotion, you can use a that-cause…
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or you can use an infinitive.
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We are happy that we are hearing the news.
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We are happy to hear the news.
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We were pleased that we received the letter.
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We were pleased to receive the letter.
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They were sad when they heard about his death.
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They were excited when they heard about the birth of her baby.
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Sorry.
“Do that again and you will be sorry.”.
“I’m sorry you didn’t pass your exam. Better luck next time.”
“I’m afraid I can’t let you in – the play has started.”
“I’m sorry to say that you can’t come in – the play has started.”
“I’m sorry to say I can’t come.”
“I’m afraid I can’t come.”
Apologies.
Sorry is used in apologies when the speaker knows he has done the wrong thing.
“I am sorry that I was so rude”.
“I’m really angry with myself for what I did.” (showing regret)
Look, I know I was wrong. It’s my fault I can’t apologise enough for forgetting the tickets.
“Miss Otis regrets that she is unable to lunch today.”
“We apologise for the delay in answering your call.”
“Please accept our most sincere apologies for this error.”
Things to say with apologies.
“I’m sorry about my homework, teacher, the dog ate it.”
“We deeply regret any inconvenience, as this was not our intention.”(Formal)
“Is this your seat? Oh, I do apologise.”
“Did I tread on your foot? I’m sorry. Are you all right?”
“Oops! I did it again.”
“Oh dear! I’m so sorry. Did I hurt you?”
“Oh no! I do apologise. Let me help you pick it up.”
“I’m sorry”
“I’m very sorry.”
“I’m really very sorry.”
“I’m really so very sorry.”
Excuse me
“Excuse me, can I come past?”
“Excuse me please, could you move your car?”
“That was a bit rude” – “Oh, excuse me.”
For example:
“Please excuse the mess in the office.”
“I’m sorry about the noise – my brother is at home.”
Not really apologizing.
“I’m sorry, but I was here before you.”
“Excuse me, but you are talking rubbish.”
I’m sorry, but you are standing on my foot.
For example:
“I’m afraid that’s impossible.”
“I’m sorry, but you can’t come in here.”
For example:
“It’s noisy in here” – “Eh? Sorry?”
“I’m diffgidi ddjja” – “Er … I beg your pardon?”
“Who is that fat woman?”
“I beg your pardon? Do you mean my mother?”
(This is the moment to practise some of the apologies you have been studying!)
“I’m afraid your team lost.”
“I’m sorry, there was nothing we could do.”
“Your car needs expensive repairs. I’m sorry.”
Please accept my condolences. (used when someone close to another has died)
That’s so sad.
I hope things get better soon.
I hope you feel better soon.
Person 2: I hope you feel better soon.
Person 2: I’m sorry to hear about Tim’s problems. I hoe things get better for him soon.
My heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Our thoughts are with you.
She/he was a lot of things to many people and will be missed tremendously.
Thinking of you in your time of loss.
We are very saddened to hear of your loss. With deepest sympathies.
You have my sincere sympathy.
You have our deepest sympathy.
Expressing sympathy…
And there are some things you should never say to a bereaved person.
So what is the best way to express sympathy when a friend or loved one has suffered a tragic loss? What should you say to them? How best to lend support or offer to help?
Many bereaved people have reported that certain things said or done by those offering sympathy had a great impact on them… either positive or negative. We present in this section a guide to help you out with one of life’s most difficult challenges… expressing sympathy.
Read on for some useful guidelines:
B: (positive) Of course, it’s no problem/trouble (at all).
B: (negative) It’s impossible for me because I’ve only got $150.
B: (positive) Certainly.
B: (negative) I wish I could, but I’ve got an appointment at 8:30.
B: (positive) Sure. I’ll be glad to.
B: (negative) I’m afraid I can’t. I don’t know anything about computers.
B: (positive) No, not at all.
B: (negative) I’m sorry, but I need it for next week’s exam.
B: (positive) No problem.
B: (negative) I can’t do that because I won’t be back until 11:00.
B: (positive) No sweat.
B: (negative) Sorry. I’m going out with Lucy.
Can I… ?
Shall I… ?
Would you like me to… ?
“Yes please. I’d like to know what time the train leaves.”
“No thanks, I’m just looking.” (In a shop.)
“Yes please. That would be very kind of you.”
“No thanks.” Or, “No thank you.”
“Yes please, that would be lovely.” Or, “Yes please, I’d love one.”
“If you wouldn’t mind.” Or, “If you could.”
(Don’t answer “Yes, I would”, as this sounds like you expect someone to do it for you.)
“It’s OK, I can do it.” Or, “Don’t worry, I’ll do it.
Use
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Examples
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ability to do sth. in the present (substitute form: to be able to)
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I can speak English.
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permission to do sth. in the present (substitute form: to be allowed to)
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Can I go to the cinema?
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request
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Can you wait a moment, please?
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offer
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I can lend you my car till tomorrow.
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suggestion
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Can we visit Grandma at the weekend?
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possibility
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It can get very hot in Arizona.
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Use
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ability to do sth. in the past (substitute form: to be able to)
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I could speak English.
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permission to do sth. in the past (substitute form: to be allowed to)
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I could go to the cinema.
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polite question *
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Could I go to the cinema, please?
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polite request *
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Could you wait a moment, please?
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polite offer *
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I could lend you my car till tomorrow.
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polite suggestion *
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Could we visit Grandma at the weekend?
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possibility *
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It could get very hot in Montana.
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Use
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possibility
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It may rain today.
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permission to do sth. in the present (substitute form: to be allowed to)
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May I go to the cinema?
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polite suggestion
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May I help you?
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Use
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possibility (less possible than may) *
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It might rain today.
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hesitant offer *
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Might I help you?
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Use
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Examples
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force, necessity
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I must go to the supermarket today.
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possibility
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You must be tired.
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advice, recommendation
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You must see the new film with Brad Pitt.
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Use
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prohibition
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You mustn’t work on dad’s computer.
You may not work on dad’s computer. |
Use
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not necessary
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I needn’t go to the supermarket, we’re going to the restaurant tonight.
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Use
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advice
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You ought to drive carefully in bad weather.
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obligation
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You ought to switch off the light when you leave the room.
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Use
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suggestion
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Shall I carry your bag?
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Use
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Examples
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advice
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You should drive carefully in bad weather.
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obligation
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You should switch off the light when you leave the room.
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Use
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wish, request, demand, order (less polite than would)
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Will you please shut the door?
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prediction, assumption
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I think it will rain on Friday.
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promise
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I will stop smoking.
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spontaneous decision
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Can somebody drive me to the station? – I will.
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habits
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She’s strange, she’ll sit for hours without talking.
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Use
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Examples
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wish, request (more polite than will)
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Would you shut the door, please?
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habits in the past
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Sometimes he would bring me some flowers.
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Singular
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Plural
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The student sings. (He or she sings)
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Your children sing. (They sing)
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The bird does migrate. (It does)
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Those birds do migrate. (They do)
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The Supreme Court judge decides the appropriate penalty.
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Subject: judge
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Verb: decides
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The committee members were satisfied with the resolution.
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Subject: members
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Verb: were
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Over the ripples glides a small canoe.
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Subject: a small canoe
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Verb: glides
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There was a well-known writer at the meeting.
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Subject: a well-known writer
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Verb: was
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The group of students is going on a field trip.
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Subject: the group
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MP: of students
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Verb: is
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The survey covering seven colleges reveals a growth in enrollment.
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Subject: the survey
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MP: covering seven colleges
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Verb: reveals
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The speaker whom you saw at the lecture is one of the state senators from Minnesota.
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Subject: the speaker
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MP: whom you saw at the lecture
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Verb: is
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The quarterback and the coach are having a conference.
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Subject: the quarterback and the coach
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Verb: are having
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Either the actors or the director is at fault.
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Subjects: actors, director
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Verb: is
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Either the director or the actors are at fault.
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Subjects: director, actors
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Verb: are
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The sales manager is a good researcher who spends a great amount of time surfing the Web for information.
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Subject: the sales manager
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Verbs: is, spends
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Sales managers are good researchers who spend a great amount of time surfing the Web for information.
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Subject: sales managers
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Verbs: are, spend
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Anyone who wants to pursue higher education has to pass entrance exams.
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Subject: anyone
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Verbs: wants, has
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Everyone on the committee is welcome to express his/her ideas.
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Subject: everyone
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Verb: is
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The jury is sequestered.
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Subject: jury
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Verb: is
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The jury are having an argument.
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Subject: jury
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Verb: are having
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The news of the discovery is spreading.
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Subject: news
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Verb: is
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The mass media have publicized the facts.
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Subject: mass media
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Verb: have publicized
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The data amaze everyone.
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Subject: data
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Verb: amaze
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Recognize a linking verb when you see one.
Linking verbs do not express action. Instead, they connect the subject of the verb to additional information about the subject. Look at the examples below:
Ising isn’t something that Keila can do. Is connects the subject, Keila, to additional information about her, that she will soon have a huge credit card bill to pay.
Areing isn’t something that cats can do. Are is connecting the subject, cats, to something said about them, that they enjoy sleeping on the furniture.
Turned connects the subject, Vladimir, to something said about him, that he was needing an antacid.
Seems connects the subject, a ten-item quiz, with something said about it, that its difficulty depends on preparation, not length.
Feels connects the subject, Irene, to her state of being, sleepiness.
The following verbs are true linking verbs: any form of the verb be [am, is, are, was, were, has been, are being, might have been, etc.], become, and seem. These true linking verbs arealways linking verbs.
Then you have a list of verbs with multiple personalities: appear, feel, grow, look, prove,remain, smell, sound, taste, and turn. Sometimes these verbs are linking verbs; sometimes they are action verbs.
How do you tell when they are action verbs and when they are linking verbs?
If you can substitute am, is, or are and the sentence still sounds logical, you have a linking verb on your hands.
If, after the substitution, the sentence makes no sense, you are dealing with an action verb instead. Here are some examples:
Sylvia is the stew? I don’t think so! Tasted, therefore, is an action verb in this sentence, something Sylvia is doing.
The stew is good? You bet. Make your own!
I am the aroma? No way! Smell, in this sentence, is an action verb, something I amdoing.
The pizza is heavenly? Definitely! Try a slice!
Oreo is the wet grass? Of course not! Here, then, felt is an action verb, something Oreo is doing.
Oreo is depressed? Without a doubt! Oreo hates the wet.
This substitution will not work for appear. With appear, you have to analyze the function of the verb.
Appear is something a blue jay can do—especially when food is near.
Here, appeared is connecting the subject, the blue jay, to its state of mind, happiness.
She thinks slow/slowly.
She thinks how? slowly.
She is a slow/slowly thinker.
Slow does not answer how, so no -ly is attached. Slow is an adjective here.
She thinks fast/fastly.
Fast answers the question how, so it is an adverb. But fast never has an -ly attached to it.
We performed bad/badly.
Badly describes how we performed.
Roses smell sweet/sweetly.
Do the roses actively smell with noses? No, so no -ly.
The woman looked angry/angrily.
Did the woman actively look with eyes or are we describing her appearance? We are only describing appearance, so no -ly.
The woman looked angry/angrily at the paint splotches.
Here the woman did actively look with eyes, so the -ly is added.
She feels bad/badly about the news.
She is not feeling with fingers, so no -ly.
You did a good job.
Good describes the job.
You did the job well.
Well answers how.
You smell good today.
Describes your odor, not how you smell with your nose, so follow with the adjective. You smell well for someone with a cold.
You are actively smelling with a nose here, so follow with the adverb.
I do not feel well. You do not look well today.
I feel good about my decision to learn Spanish.
One
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Two
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Three or More
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sweet
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sweeter
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sweetest
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bad
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worse
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worst
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efficient*
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more efficient*
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most efficient*
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*Usually with words of three or more syllables, don’t add -er or -est. Use more or most in front of the words.
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She spoke quickly.
She spoke more quickly than he did.
She spoke quicker than he did.
Talk quietly.
Talk more quietly.
Talk quieter.
This house is for sale.
This is an adjective here.
This is for sale.
This is a pronoun here.
That dog is hers.
This is mine.
That is hers.
These babies have been smiling for a long time.
These are mine. Those babies have been crying for hours. Those are yours.
I would rather go skiing than rock climbing.
First we went skiing; then we went rock climbing.
· The cartoon is amusing so Ben is Amused. (not Ben is Amusing)